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Listen to advice and accept instruction, that you may gain wisdom in the future. Many are the plans in the mind of a man, but it is the purpose of the Lord that will stand. Proverbs 19: 20-21
February 1, 2026
Father Mike's weekly message:
When you pray, do you take time to listen to God? One may ask, “What does God’s ‘Voice’ sound like?” “How will I know if God is talking to me?” These are common questions. One might even add one more - “If a thought or feeling arises in my mind or heart, how do I know this is God and not just me?”
When I was younger much of my faith and relationship with God was based on what I had learned about God. I believed in the things Jesus said in the Bible and the derivative doctrines and teachings of the Church. I surmised what God wanted me to do from logical connections to what Jesus said and did. They just seemed to make sense and be the right way to live. Back then, I knew that God spoke to Abraham and Moses and that the disciples had the privilege of seeing and hearing Jesus because they lived with him, but deep down I did not think that God would personally want to talk to me.
On the contrary, through the Gospels, the letters of St. Paul and the saints throughout the centuries, our Catholic spiritual heritage strongly asserts that God indeed yearns for a deeply personal relationship with each of us! In fact, decades ago, theologian Karl Rahner, SJ, predicted that as secularism continued to make inroads into all aspects of our culture only Christians that had a personal relationship with Jesus and the Trinity would remain faithful. Just connecting to the beliefs of Christianity would not be sustaining for most. Don’t we see this today in so many young people and others who have become disconnected from their practice of the Faith?
More than ever today, we need to let God teach us how to hear his voice in the scriptures, through others who know him well, in all of creation and most especially in our own hearts and minds. I recommend A Friendship Like No Other: Experiencing God’s Amazing Embrace by William Barry, SJ.
In this book, Fr. Barry offers reflections on experiencing the presence of God and discerning these encounters. He also provides prayerful exercises and meditations to help us recognize and embrace God’s great desire for our friendship.
What a gift!
Father Mike's weekly message:
When you pray, do you take time to listen to God? One may ask, “What does God’s ‘Voice’ sound like?” “How will I know if God is talking to me?” These are common questions. One might even add one more - “If a thought or feeling arises in my mind or heart, how do I know this is God and not just me?”
When I was younger much of my faith and relationship with God was based on what I had learned about God. I believed in the things Jesus said in the Bible and the derivative doctrines and teachings of the Church. I surmised what God wanted me to do from logical connections to what Jesus said and did. They just seemed to make sense and be the right way to live. Back then, I knew that God spoke to Abraham and Moses and that the disciples had the privilege of seeing and hearing Jesus because they lived with him, but deep down I did not think that God would personally want to talk to me.
On the contrary, through the Gospels, the letters of St. Paul and the saints throughout the centuries, our Catholic spiritual heritage strongly asserts that God indeed yearns for a deeply personal relationship with each of us! In fact, decades ago, theologian Karl Rahner, SJ, predicted that as secularism continued to make inroads into all aspects of our culture only Christians that had a personal relationship with Jesus and the Trinity would remain faithful. Just connecting to the beliefs of Christianity would not be sustaining for most. Don’t we see this today in so many young people and others who have become disconnected from their practice of the Faith?
More than ever today, we need to let God teach us how to hear his voice in the scriptures, through others who know him well, in all of creation and most especially in our own hearts and minds. I recommend A Friendship Like No Other: Experiencing God’s Amazing Embrace by William Barry, SJ.
In this book, Fr. Barry offers reflections on experiencing the presence of God and discerning these encounters. He also provides prayerful exercises and meditations to help us recognize and embrace God’s great desire for our friendship.
What a gift!
January 25, 2026
As you may remember in the last two weeks, I wrote about ways of listening which though well-intentioned are not so effective especially when people are trying to tell us something important about what they believe or feel. Then I wrote about the importance of good body language and a caring tone that signals our receptivity. Today, I’d like to reflect more on what’s called active listening. In other words, what do I say or do when others are telling their story?
A good friend and colleague of mine Sr. Maureen Grady, C.S.C. has a simple acronym for active listening. She calls it TIS. The “T” stands for listening for the theme as someone is speaking. The “I” is our call to invitethe speaker to say more about their theme. Often people will mention several themes either in words or in their tone and body language. In that case just pick the one that seems like it’s the most important. If it’s not, the person will switch to the one that is. Finally, “S” is a reminder to keep our response simple, otherwise we’ll derail the other person or drift into those autobiographical responses that I mentioned two weeks ago. Here’s an example of how simple TIS can be – “I’m really having a bad day.” The theme is quite apparent – a bad day. I could then invite the other to say more by simply asking, “How so?” Most likely more specific themes would then emerge and I would just keep following.
Obviously, it’s impossible in such a few lines to communicate how effective this kind listening can be. It takes practice for it to become natural and personal to our own vocabulary, but each semester at the seminary when we introduced this kind of listening to our new students they would come back over the next months to report how much deeper their conversations with friends and family were becoming. If you’d like to read more about active listening, I’d recommend Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most. This book not only covers active listening, but has great suggestions for listening and navigating tough topics and situations.Good listening is essential for loving others. The Bible is the great compendium of how God listens to us and how we have listened and failed to listen to him.
Next week I’d like to continue this series with Listening to God.
As you may remember in the last two weeks, I wrote about ways of listening which though well-intentioned are not so effective especially when people are trying to tell us something important about what they believe or feel. Then I wrote about the importance of good body language and a caring tone that signals our receptivity. Today, I’d like to reflect more on what’s called active listening. In other words, what do I say or do when others are telling their story?
A good friend and colleague of mine Sr. Maureen Grady, C.S.C. has a simple acronym for active listening. She calls it TIS. The “T” stands for listening for the theme as someone is speaking. The “I” is our call to invitethe speaker to say more about their theme. Often people will mention several themes either in words or in their tone and body language. In that case just pick the one that seems like it’s the most important. If it’s not, the person will switch to the one that is. Finally, “S” is a reminder to keep our response simple, otherwise we’ll derail the other person or drift into those autobiographical responses that I mentioned two weeks ago. Here’s an example of how simple TIS can be – “I’m really having a bad day.” The theme is quite apparent – a bad day. I could then invite the other to say more by simply asking, “How so?” Most likely more specific themes would then emerge and I would just keep following.
Obviously, it’s impossible in such a few lines to communicate how effective this kind listening can be. It takes practice for it to become natural and personal to our own vocabulary, but each semester at the seminary when we introduced this kind of listening to our new students they would come back over the next months to report how much deeper their conversations with friends and family were becoming. If you’d like to read more about active listening, I’d recommend Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most. This book not only covers active listening, but has great suggestions for listening and navigating tough topics and situations.Good listening is essential for loving others. The Bible is the great compendium of how God listens to us and how we have listened and failed to listen to him.
Next week I’d like to continue this series with Listening to God.
January 18, 2026
Last week I reflected on the popular New Year’s resolution: Talk Less and Listen More.” I mentioned ways that people commonly listen that although well-intentioned are not really effective. So what does good listening look like? When we are trying to communicate content that means something to us there is clearly an affective dimension. We care about what we are saying. These conversations are not just the transfer of facts or interesting ideas. This is dialogue that centers around what we think and feel about a topic or issue in our lives. In these exchanges it is reported that more than half of what we mean is found in our body language like eye contact, posture and facial expressions. Another third is in the tone of our voice and the actual words may account for under 10 % of what we are really communicating. Think about how often people answer “Fine,” when asked “How are you?” and “Nothing,” when asked “What’s wrong?” And yet the person’s tone and face are clearly saying that things are far from fine and there is definitely something wrong.
Being able to listen well is having the skills to read body language and tone. Most of us do this pretty well even if we are not conscious of it. Being a good listener also means being aware of our body language and tone while we are listening. Do I have good eye contact? Does my face and tone show interest and care. The Gospels often cite Jesus’ body language, how he touched people in healing. Luke mentions that in Capernaum when the whole town was at the door bringing their sick to him for healing, Jesus laid hands on every one of them. When he challenged those who wanted to stone the woman caught in adultery, he stooped down and wrote on the ground. Was he leaving them time to think? Was he writing their sins in the sand? What we don’t get to hear in these examples in Matthew, Mark, Luke or John is the tone of his voice and the look in his eyes. His expression must have been so inviting for those who were considered outcastes. Although they felt no one cared for them, they knew he did! Think about your body language and tone especially with those you love? Are there changes you can make to be a better listener.
More about good listening next week . . .
Last week I reflected on the popular New Year’s resolution: Talk Less and Listen More.” I mentioned ways that people commonly listen that although well-intentioned are not really effective. So what does good listening look like? When we are trying to communicate content that means something to us there is clearly an affective dimension. We care about what we are saying. These conversations are not just the transfer of facts or interesting ideas. This is dialogue that centers around what we think and feel about a topic or issue in our lives. In these exchanges it is reported that more than half of what we mean is found in our body language like eye contact, posture and facial expressions. Another third is in the tone of our voice and the actual words may account for under 10 % of what we are really communicating. Think about how often people answer “Fine,” when asked “How are you?” and “Nothing,” when asked “What’s wrong?” And yet the person’s tone and face are clearly saying that things are far from fine and there is definitely something wrong.
Being able to listen well is having the skills to read body language and tone. Most of us do this pretty well even if we are not conscious of it. Being a good listener also means being aware of our body language and tone while we are listening. Do I have good eye contact? Does my face and tone show interest and care. The Gospels often cite Jesus’ body language, how he touched people in healing. Luke mentions that in Capernaum when the whole town was at the door bringing their sick to him for healing, Jesus laid hands on every one of them. When he challenged those who wanted to stone the woman caught in adultery, he stooped down and wrote on the ground. Was he leaving them time to think? Was he writing their sins in the sand? What we don’t get to hear in these examples in Matthew, Mark, Luke or John is the tone of his voice and the look in his eyes. His expression must have been so inviting for those who were considered outcastes. Although they felt no one cared for them, they knew he did! Think about your body language and tone especially with those you love? Are there changes you can make to be a better listener.
More about good listening next week . . .
January 11, 2025
Talk Less & Listen More
I've often seen "talk less and listen more" as a suggestion for a New Year's resolution. Those who adopt it I imagine are hoping that this effort will allow them to become wiser and perhaps more caring. People often ask me what I did at the seminary and when I tell them that I co-taught a class about active listening, their response is always the same, "I need to take that class" or "I wish my spouse would take that course." Many of us think of ourselves as good listeners, but we also sense we could listen better and more often.
What makes listening so important to you? Think of a time when you really felt listened to. What did the person do that made you think that they were really listening? What did they say or not say? How was their tone of voice and posture. What else did you notice?
Stephen Covey who authored Seven Habits for Highly Effective People says that the two most common ways we listen to each other in our society are with praise or advice. We cheer them on or we have just the right way to fix their situation. As well- intentioned as these methods might be, they're probably not how we remember others really listening to us.
Covey mentions how often we use autobiographical responses when we're trying to listen We may say, "I know just what you mean. The same thing happened to me." This response though attempting to connect through a shared experience really assumes that we know what the other person is talking about and feeling even before they are finished telling us. We're interpreting their story with ours. Experiences are unique and our impressions of them are personal. Autobiographical responses although helpful in some situations can actually block authentic listening. True listening allows the other to communicate how THEY think and feel. When we truly listen, we bear witness to the dignity of the other and communicate that we really care.
So, what does effective listening look like? And how does all this relate to my faith?
To be continued next week...
Talk Less & Listen More
I've often seen "talk less and listen more" as a suggestion for a New Year's resolution. Those who adopt it I imagine are hoping that this effort will allow them to become wiser and perhaps more caring. People often ask me what I did at the seminary and when I tell them that I co-taught a class about active listening, their response is always the same, "I need to take that class" or "I wish my spouse would take that course." Many of us think of ourselves as good listeners, but we also sense we could listen better and more often.
What makes listening so important to you? Think of a time when you really felt listened to. What did the person do that made you think that they were really listening? What did they say or not say? How was their tone of voice and posture. What else did you notice?
Stephen Covey who authored Seven Habits for Highly Effective People says that the two most common ways we listen to each other in our society are with praise or advice. We cheer them on or we have just the right way to fix their situation. As well- intentioned as these methods might be, they're probably not how we remember others really listening to us.
Covey mentions how often we use autobiographical responses when we're trying to listen We may say, "I know just what you mean. The same thing happened to me." This response though attempting to connect through a shared experience really assumes that we know what the other person is talking about and feeling even before they are finished telling us. We're interpreting their story with ours. Experiences are unique and our impressions of them are personal. Autobiographical responses although helpful in some situations can actually block authentic listening. True listening allows the other to communicate how THEY think and feel. When we truly listen, we bear witness to the dignity of the other and communicate that we really care.
So, what does effective listening look like? And how does all this relate to my faith?
To be continued next week...
January 4, 2025
Father Mike's weekly message:
Be a Blessing
Lord bless you and keep you!
The Lord let his face shine upon you,
And be gracious to you!
The Lord look upon you kindly and
give you peace!
Numbers 6: 24-26
This ancient blessing from the Book of Numbers also known as Aaron’s Blessing is roughly 3000 years old! It consists of three lines each divided into two parts. The first parts represent God's presence and the second parts speak of his graciousness.
The Lord bless you; the Lord let us face shine upon you; the Lord look upon you kindly, All these phrases represent the very nature God – God’s mercy and love. The psalmists in the Old Testament, the Hebrew Scriptures, spoke often of yearning to see the face of God even though they knew that no one could see his face and live. It would be like touching lightning and that would be more than any human could endure, yet here in this blessing Love’s desire is made possible, and in fact, God's face looks upon us kindly - how personal and powerful!
The second parts of the blessing indicate God's graciousness - he keeps us, protects us. He's gracious to us, giving us abundant gifts. He gives us peace, the only kind possible to transform our world today.
I once heard of a young man who went to Connecticut to ask for the blessing of his girlfriend’s parents before he asked her to marry him. It’s old-fashioned, yet traditional for a reason – in the midst of blessings people thrive. Oh, how our young people need our blessings today as parents, grandparents, uncles and aunts, teachers and mentors of all kinds.
Unlike many resolutions we may make and abandon quickly, perhaps one that would be simple and yet have profound possibilities would be to begin each day in a twofold way like Aaron’s Prayer: to resolve to pray for the grace for open eyes and ears to see and hear God's presence in our day; and secondly, to be a blessing as a sign of God’s goodness in our midst.
Happy New Year and God bless you!
Father Mike's weekly message:
Be a Blessing
Lord bless you and keep you!
The Lord let his face shine upon you,
And be gracious to you!
The Lord look upon you kindly and
give you peace!
Numbers 6: 24-26
This ancient blessing from the Book of Numbers also known as Aaron’s Blessing is roughly 3000 years old! It consists of three lines each divided into two parts. The first parts represent God's presence and the second parts speak of his graciousness.
The Lord bless you; the Lord let us face shine upon you; the Lord look upon you kindly, All these phrases represent the very nature God – God’s mercy and love. The psalmists in the Old Testament, the Hebrew Scriptures, spoke often of yearning to see the face of God even though they knew that no one could see his face and live. It would be like touching lightning and that would be more than any human could endure, yet here in this blessing Love’s desire is made possible, and in fact, God's face looks upon us kindly - how personal and powerful!
The second parts of the blessing indicate God's graciousness - he keeps us, protects us. He's gracious to us, giving us abundant gifts. He gives us peace, the only kind possible to transform our world today.
I once heard of a young man who went to Connecticut to ask for the blessing of his girlfriend’s parents before he asked her to marry him. It’s old-fashioned, yet traditional for a reason – in the midst of blessings people thrive. Oh, how our young people need our blessings today as parents, grandparents, uncles and aunts, teachers and mentors of all kinds.
Unlike many resolutions we may make and abandon quickly, perhaps one that would be simple and yet have profound possibilities would be to begin each day in a twofold way like Aaron’s Prayer: to resolve to pray for the grace for open eyes and ears to see and hear God's presence in our day; and secondly, to be a blessing as a sign of God’s goodness in our midst.
Happy New Year and God bless you!
Dear brothers and sisters in Christ,
May the blessings of the Incarnate Lord Jesus be with you always. The birth of Christ in Bethlehem is a reminder to all of us of the awesome love of God. God became one of us so that our relationship with him might grow ever closer. Jesus’ birth brings hope anew for every generation!
May we also turn to the Holy Family, the Blessed Virgin Mary and her spouse St. Joseph for their intercession during this Christmas Season. May their example of love to each other and the Christ Child inspire love and unity in our own families.
If you are visiting today with relatives or on vacation, enjoy your stay. Isn’t it wonderful that wherever we are in the world, we are home in our Catholic Church! I love that feeling of universality and connection when I travel. To all who may have come back to Mass today or are here for the first time, please know you are welcome!
Our website at www.stbrendancatholic.org has lots of information or call our office at 727-443-5485 with your specific questions. We’d love to hear from you!
Merry Christmas & God bless you!
Fr. Mike
May the blessings of the Incarnate Lord Jesus be with you always. The birth of Christ in Bethlehem is a reminder to all of us of the awesome love of God. God became one of us so that our relationship with him might grow ever closer. Jesus’ birth brings hope anew for every generation!
May we also turn to the Holy Family, the Blessed Virgin Mary and her spouse St. Joseph for their intercession during this Christmas Season. May their example of love to each other and the Christ Child inspire love and unity in our own families.
If you are visiting today with relatives or on vacation, enjoy your stay. Isn’t it wonderful that wherever we are in the world, we are home in our Catholic Church! I love that feeling of universality and connection when I travel. To all who may have come back to Mass today or are here for the first time, please know you are welcome!
Our website at www.stbrendancatholic.org has lots of information or call our office at 727-443-5485 with your specific questions. We’d love to hear from you!
Merry Christmas & God bless you!
Fr. Mike
December 21, 2025
Mary is closely associated with the season of Advent, no doubt because of her ability to listen deeply and to respond generously. There are two major feast days dedicated to Mary during this season - Mary as patroness of the United States under the title of the Immaculate Conception (Dec. 8) and as patroness of the Americas in her title as Our Lady of Guadalupe (Dec. 12).
What a wonderful guide she is for us in these final days as we prepare for the celebration of Jesus‘ nativity.
I love the detail Luke includes in his gospel that as Mary witnessed the visit of the shepherds and their tale of the proclamation of the angels, “she kept all these things and pondered them in her heart.” Luke 2: 19
Each year, I hope that my heart may be more like hers. I pray that yours may be as well.
Mary is closely associated with the season of Advent, no doubt because of her ability to listen deeply and to respond generously. There are two major feast days dedicated to Mary during this season - Mary as patroness of the United States under the title of the Immaculate Conception (Dec. 8) and as patroness of the Americas in her title as Our Lady of Guadalupe (Dec. 12).
What a wonderful guide she is for us in these final days as we prepare for the celebration of Jesus‘ nativity.
I love the detail Luke includes in his gospel that as Mary witnessed the visit of the shepherds and their tale of the proclamation of the angels, “she kept all these things and pondered them in her heart.” Luke 2: 19
Each year, I hope that my heart may be more like hers. I pray that yours may be as well.
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December 14, 2025
I took this picture at St. Vincent de Paul Seminary in Boynton Beach, Florida. Ironically, a full moon rising forms a halo not behind St. Vincent de Paul but over the man he is helping. “And the king will say to them in reply, Amen, I say to you, whatever you did for one of the least brothers of mine, you did for me.” Matt 25:40 During this season of Advent, we are called to renew our efforts to seek out our brothers and sisters in need. A special thank you to all those who helped through our Virginia Tree!!! God bless you!! |
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December 7, 2025
"And when he came near, Jesus asked him, 'What do you want me to do for you?' - Luke 18: 40b-41a
I remember years ago there was something big that I thought Jesus might want me to do. I definitely did not want to do it. I shared all my excuses with my spiritual director who then gave me a most surprising suggestion. She asked me to pray with this passage of Jesus healing a blind man (Luke 18: 35- 43). I could not see the connection. If I was blind, I did not want to see! But I followed her invitation.
In my prayer, when I looked at Jesus’ face, I could not just say “Don’t ask me to do that.” His demeanor was so kind. I could not be so base. Instead, I simply told Him how afraid I was. The resulting dialogue went on for weeks and took many turns, and I ended up in a place I never thought possible.
What do you want Him to do for you?
Lord, thank you for always being there for us!
"And when he came near, Jesus asked him, 'What do you want me to do for you?' - Luke 18: 40b-41a
I remember years ago there was something big that I thought Jesus might want me to do. I definitely did not want to do it. I shared all my excuses with my spiritual director who then gave me a most surprising suggestion. She asked me to pray with this passage of Jesus healing a blind man (Luke 18: 35- 43). I could not see the connection. If I was blind, I did not want to see! But I followed her invitation.
In my prayer, when I looked at Jesus’ face, I could not just say “Don’t ask me to do that.” His demeanor was so kind. I could not be so base. Instead, I simply told Him how afraid I was. The resulting dialogue went on for weeks and took many turns, and I ended up in a place I never thought possible.
What do you want Him to do for you?
Lord, thank you for always being there for us!
November 30, 2025
Back in 1965, Lee Mendelson with the direction of Bill Melendez and the writing genius of Charles M Shultz produced the now classic A Charlie Brown Christmas which still airs annually. This animated cartoon depicts the over-commercialization and secularization of Christmas. According to a study* less than 9% of Christmas specials even back then had any substantive reference to religion. Shultz was determined that Linus read the Gospel account of the real meaning of Christmas in his program. Here is the dialogue that takes place late in the story in an empty auditorium:
Charlie Brown: "Isn’t there anyone, who knows what Christmas is all about?!"
Linus: "Sure, Charlie Brown, I can tell you what Christmas is all about. Lights please?"
"And there were in the same country shepherds, abiding in the field, keep- ing watch over their flock by nigh t. And, lo, the angel of the Lord came upon them, and the glory of the Lord shone round about them! And they were sore afraid. And the angel said unto them, “Fear not! For, behold, I bring you tidings of great joy, which shall be to all my people. For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, which is Christ, the Lord. And this shall be a sign unto you: Ye shall find the babe wrapped in swaddling clothes, lying in a manger.” And suddenly, there was with the angel a multitude of the Heavenly Host praising God, and say- ing, “Glory to God in the Highest, and on Earth peace, and good will toward men.”
"That’s what Christmas is all about, Charlie Brown."
Today, as we begin the season of Advent, how will you prepare your heart for the real meaning of Christmas, the birthday of Jesus? Every year, many of us make resolutions about how this December will be different - quieter, less hectic, more reflective and every year most of us still get caught up in the frenetic pace of the holidays. Perhaps this year instead of making resolutions just listen as Mary did to everything and let God speak to you and lead you to His Truth in the midst of the chaos. That’s how he came over 2000 years ago and that’s how he comes today!
*Lind, Stephen J. "Christmas in the 1960s: A Charlie Brown Christmas, Religion, and the Conventions of the Genre" Journal of Religion and Popular Culture 26.1 (2014)
Back in 1965, Lee Mendelson with the direction of Bill Melendez and the writing genius of Charles M Shultz produced the now classic A Charlie Brown Christmas which still airs annually. This animated cartoon depicts the over-commercialization and secularization of Christmas. According to a study* less than 9% of Christmas specials even back then had any substantive reference to religion. Shultz was determined that Linus read the Gospel account of the real meaning of Christmas in his program. Here is the dialogue that takes place late in the story in an empty auditorium:
Charlie Brown: "Isn’t there anyone, who knows what Christmas is all about?!"
Linus: "Sure, Charlie Brown, I can tell you what Christmas is all about. Lights please?"
"And there were in the same country shepherds, abiding in the field, keep- ing watch over their flock by nigh t. And, lo, the angel of the Lord came upon them, and the glory of the Lord shone round about them! And they were sore afraid. And the angel said unto them, “Fear not! For, behold, I bring you tidings of great joy, which shall be to all my people. For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, which is Christ, the Lord. And this shall be a sign unto you: Ye shall find the babe wrapped in swaddling clothes, lying in a manger.” And suddenly, there was with the angel a multitude of the Heavenly Host praising God, and say- ing, “Glory to God in the Highest, and on Earth peace, and good will toward men.”
"That’s what Christmas is all about, Charlie Brown."
Today, as we begin the season of Advent, how will you prepare your heart for the real meaning of Christmas, the birthday of Jesus? Every year, many of us make resolutions about how this December will be different - quieter, less hectic, more reflective and every year most of us still get caught up in the frenetic pace of the holidays. Perhaps this year instead of making resolutions just listen as Mary did to everything and let God speak to you and lead you to His Truth in the midst of the chaos. That’s how he came over 2000 years ago and that’s how he comes today!
*Lind, Stephen J. "Christmas in the 1960s: A Charlie Brown Christmas, Religion, and the Conventions of the Genre" Journal of Religion and Popular Culture 26.1 (2014)
November 23, 2025
Thanksgiving is just days away! This national holiday celebrated every year since 1863 when in the midst of the Civil War President Abraham Lincoln proclaimed a national day of "Thanksgiving and Praise to our beneficent Father who dwelleth in the Heavens." There is an almost tangible grace whenever we gather together in thanksgiving as a people. Somehow being grate- ful together creates and nourishes a bond of caring and charity that is stronger than the sum of all of our individual feelings.
Many of the spiritual writers of our Catholic tradition encourage a time of gratefulness at the beginning of every time of prayer. Reflecting on and giving thanks for the blessings of each day not only places us in the middle of grace, but it disposes our hearts to openness and a readiness to respond. One of my favorite quotes is by Meister Eckhart a Dominican monk from the 14th century who said “If the only prayer you ever say in your entire life is thank you, it will be enough.” Eckhart was not a minimalist intending this to be a one-time prayer but rather a way of life. Think of how many graces flow from an attitude of thankfulness.
Aren’t the people you know who are most peaceful and joyful in life also people full of gratitude? They accept that all is a gift and even in difficult times they are usually people who recognize how God is with them in the struggle and has sent them others to companion them along the way.
A few years ago, during a school Mass I asked for 5 volunteers to form a Thanksgiving chain. The kids at this school were so eager to volunteer; I’m sure there were at least 100 hands raised! The idea was to name one blessing after another without breaking the chain. Each student had 4 seconds to respond. Our chain that morning was unbroken and when I asked how long could this chain go on, one young disciple responded, “Forever!”
Each Sunday, as we gather around our Eucharist, literally our Thanksgiving, may the Lord bless us with ever grateful hearts especially reaching out to those most in need of our time, our treasure and our love!
Thanksgiving is just days away! This national holiday celebrated every year since 1863 when in the midst of the Civil War President Abraham Lincoln proclaimed a national day of "Thanksgiving and Praise to our beneficent Father who dwelleth in the Heavens." There is an almost tangible grace whenever we gather together in thanksgiving as a people. Somehow being grate- ful together creates and nourishes a bond of caring and charity that is stronger than the sum of all of our individual feelings.
Many of the spiritual writers of our Catholic tradition encourage a time of gratefulness at the beginning of every time of prayer. Reflecting on and giving thanks for the blessings of each day not only places us in the middle of grace, but it disposes our hearts to openness and a readiness to respond. One of my favorite quotes is by Meister Eckhart a Dominican monk from the 14th century who said “If the only prayer you ever say in your entire life is thank you, it will be enough.” Eckhart was not a minimalist intending this to be a one-time prayer but rather a way of life. Think of how many graces flow from an attitude of thankfulness.
Aren’t the people you know who are most peaceful and joyful in life also people full of gratitude? They accept that all is a gift and even in difficult times they are usually people who recognize how God is with them in the struggle and has sent them others to companion them along the way.
A few years ago, during a school Mass I asked for 5 volunteers to form a Thanksgiving chain. The kids at this school were so eager to volunteer; I’m sure there were at least 100 hands raised! The idea was to name one blessing after another without breaking the chain. Each student had 4 seconds to respond. Our chain that morning was unbroken and when I asked how long could this chain go on, one young disciple responded, “Forever!”
Each Sunday, as we gather around our Eucharist, literally our Thanksgiving, may the Lord bless us with ever grateful hearts especially reaching out to those most in need of our time, our treasure and our love!
November 16, 2025
Called to Serve
By Fr. Mike Muhr
Today, we turn our attention to the third stained glass window in our beautiful collection. This window depicts Bishop Erc ordaining Brendan at the young age of 26. I’m sure this was a proud moment for the bishop, as he had fostered Brendan’s spiritual life from birth. Sadly, Bishop Erc passed away not long after this joyous cele- bration of a new priest in the life of the Church.
Twenty-six years old. I wonder what went through Brendan’s mind as he began his priestly ministry. Did he have any idea how God might use him and his service for the growth of faith in Ireland?
You’ve heard this many times, but the reality bears repeating: each one of us, through our baptism, has a vocation—a special calling from the Lord. Since Vatican II, our under- standing of vocation has expanded to include all of us, not just those called to priesthood and religious life. How has God called you so far in your life? How might he be calling you today?
Many of us have major life vocations such as marriage or careers that foster service to God’s people in the larger community, but we also have callings within our major call. Mother Teresa served as a teacher in religious life for many years when she felt called in a special way to serve the poorest of the poor. Although our own calls may not be as dramatic as hers, God is calling each one of us in some way to serve his mission of spreading the Good News.
Don’t be shy or think that God would not want to use you. Some of our greatest saints had very humble gifts that they offered to the Lord in service of others. If you think you may not have been called, think again. In my last assignment, one of our parishioners made calls to those who had recently lost loved ones, offering a listening ear and reaching out on behalf of the parish community. She is 98 years old and homebound, and she absolutely loves this ministry.
God is calling each one of us because he has made you and me for some special purpose in his great plan to heal and redeem the world. Father Brendan, pray for us!
Called to Serve
By Fr. Mike Muhr
Today, we turn our attention to the third stained glass window in our beautiful collection. This window depicts Bishop Erc ordaining Brendan at the young age of 26. I’m sure this was a proud moment for the bishop, as he had fostered Brendan’s spiritual life from birth. Sadly, Bishop Erc passed away not long after this joyous cele- bration of a new priest in the life of the Church.
Twenty-six years old. I wonder what went through Brendan’s mind as he began his priestly ministry. Did he have any idea how God might use him and his service for the growth of faith in Ireland?
You’ve heard this many times, but the reality bears repeating: each one of us, through our baptism, has a vocation—a special calling from the Lord. Since Vatican II, our under- standing of vocation has expanded to include all of us, not just those called to priesthood and religious life. How has God called you so far in your life? How might he be calling you today?
Many of us have major life vocations such as marriage or careers that foster service to God’s people in the larger community, but we also have callings within our major call. Mother Teresa served as a teacher in religious life for many years when she felt called in a special way to serve the poorest of the poor. Although our own calls may not be as dramatic as hers, God is calling each one of us in some way to serve his mission of spreading the Good News.
Don’t be shy or think that God would not want to use you. Some of our greatest saints had very humble gifts that they offered to the Lord in service of others. If you think you may not have been called, think again. In my last assignment, one of our parishioners made calls to those who had recently lost loved ones, offering a listening ear and reaching out on behalf of the parish community. She is 98 years old and homebound, and she absolutely loves this ministry.
God is calling each one of us because he has made you and me for some special purpose in his great plan to heal and redeem the world. Father Brendan, pray for us!
Special Announcement
By Fr. Mike Muhr
Dear Sisters and brothers:
I am delighted to introduce our new parish manager, Elizabeth “Liz” Santor, who began serving this past Monday, October 20. I’ve expanded her position from “office manager” to “parish manager” to better reflect the scope of her role. As I serve two ministries — as pastor of our wonderful parish and director of ministry to priests in the diocese — it’s essential that I have someone to help coordinate all the details of our parish life together. Below is Liz’s greeting letter.
It is with great gratitude and enthusiasm that I join the faith community of St. Brendan’s Catholic Church as your new Parish Manager. I bring several years of experience in administrative, customer service, and operational leadership, along with a deep commitment to service, and faith.
Originally from Mount Carmel, Pennsylvania, I was a lifelong member of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church. I now reside in Clearwater with my husband, Zachary, and our cat, Zoey. I am also an active member and cantor at Light of Christ Church.
I am truly honored to serve this vibrant parish community and look forward to working closely with our pastor, staff, and ministries to ensure that the daily operations of the parish are conducted with excellence, collaboration, and integrity. I look forward to getting to know each of you as we continue to grow together in faith.
Have a Great Day!
Liz Santor
By Fr. Mike Muhr
Dear Sisters and brothers:
I am delighted to introduce our new parish manager, Elizabeth “Liz” Santor, who began serving this past Monday, October 20. I’ve expanded her position from “office manager” to “parish manager” to better reflect the scope of her role. As I serve two ministries — as pastor of our wonderful parish and director of ministry to priests in the diocese — it’s essential that I have someone to help coordinate all the details of our parish life together. Below is Liz’s greeting letter.
It is with great gratitude and enthusiasm that I join the faith community of St. Brendan’s Catholic Church as your new Parish Manager. I bring several years of experience in administrative, customer service, and operational leadership, along with a deep commitment to service, and faith.
Originally from Mount Carmel, Pennsylvania, I was a lifelong member of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church. I now reside in Clearwater with my husband, Zachary, and our cat, Zoey. I am also an active member and cantor at Light of Christ Church.
I am truly honored to serve this vibrant parish community and look forward to working closely with our pastor, staff, and ministries to ensure that the daily operations of the parish are conducted with excellence, collaboration, and integrity. I look forward to getting to know each of you as we continue to grow together in faith.
Have a Great Day!
Liz Santor
October 19, 2025
Dear Sisters and brothers:
In the north, October usually brings cooler tempera- tures and symphonies of color in branches above. Here in Florida, we look forward as well to that first cool front that will deliver us from the 90’s and its drenching humidity. It’s also a month in honor of the Rosary, that wonderful contemplative prayer with Mary, who is such a model of listening and trust in God. As she did at Cana, she always leads us to Jesus: “Do whatever he tells you.” (John 2:5) If you have not already discovered the blessings of the Rosary, I pray that this month may be a time when you allow her to teach you this beautiful prayer.
I was not particularly close to Mary growing up, but as I look back now she came close to me; she taught me how to pray. It’s hard to put this into words, for in the beginning I felt frustrated and left out as I saw others whose devotion to her seemed easy. The repetition of Our Fathers and Hail Marys seemed fruitless. At the same time, I felt the urge to keep praying. It’s only now when I reflect back upon how my feelings for her as mother and guide have grown that I realize how much God has touched my heart. I disclose this knowing that many of you have similar experiences and I hope these reflections assist you in your own prayer journey with her to God. As we celebrate this month the gift of Life in all its stages, may Mary be for each of us an example of love, faith and true discipleship!
God bless! Father Mike Muhr
Dear Sisters and brothers:
In the north, October usually brings cooler tempera- tures and symphonies of color in branches above. Here in Florida, we look forward as well to that first cool front that will deliver us from the 90’s and its drenching humidity. It’s also a month in honor of the Rosary, that wonderful contemplative prayer with Mary, who is such a model of listening and trust in God. As she did at Cana, she always leads us to Jesus: “Do whatever he tells you.” (John 2:5) If you have not already discovered the blessings of the Rosary, I pray that this month may be a time when you allow her to teach you this beautiful prayer.
I was not particularly close to Mary growing up, but as I look back now she came close to me; she taught me how to pray. It’s hard to put this into words, for in the beginning I felt frustrated and left out as I saw others whose devotion to her seemed easy. The repetition of Our Fathers and Hail Marys seemed fruitless. At the same time, I felt the urge to keep praying. It’s only now when I reflect back upon how my feelings for her as mother and guide have grown that I realize how much God has touched my heart. I disclose this knowing that many of you have similar experiences and I hope these reflections assist you in your own prayer journey with her to God. As we celebrate this month the gift of Life in all its stages, may Mary be for each of us an example of love, faith and true discipleship!
God bless! Father Mike Muhr
Made Whole Again
By Fr. Mike Muhr
I want to share this story I read some time ago. In 1981, Peter Cropper a famous British violinist was scheduled to give a concert in Finland. As a favor, the Academy of Music in London offered him their 285-year-old Stradivarius for the trip. This violin was named after its creator Antonio Stradivari. It was made of 80 pieces of specially selected wood carefully constructed and then covered with 30 coats of varnish. The sound of its music has never been reproduced. Finally, the time for the concert came, and as Peter began to walk onto the stage his worst nightmare occurred. He tripped and fell. The violin broke apart into several pieces. Peter was horrified. Can you imagine how he felt? I have dreams like this. I dream I go to someone's house; I go to open the curtains and they fall off-the-wall…, but can you imagine breaking this priceless musical instrument? Well, Peter still in shock took the broken pieces back to London. He brought them to Charles Beare a master artisan who worked for hours and hours trying to reconstruct the broken violin. When he finally completed his repairs, he handed the instrument to Peter who raised the bow and began to play. Everyone wondered if it was ruined, but the violin played beautifully! In fact, people said it sounded even better than before. Talk about getting back on the horse - Peter then took that violin ontour to standing ovations around the world.*
Just as Charles Beare brought that Stradivarius back to life, Jesus the craftsman and healer of our souls with great patience and love brings wholeness to each of us. I have had the privilege to be part of the retreat team for a Rachel’s Vineyard weekend, a time where women and men receive the Lord’s healing and forgiveness for painful post-abortive emotions and experience renewed hope, reconciliation and well-being.
If you or someone you know has experienced the pain of abortion, please let them know there is help available. Our diocesan number for Project Rachel post-abortive healing is (813) 924-4173. All calls are confidential. If you want to read more about Rachel’s Vineyard retreats, please go to their website at www.rachelsvineyard.org.
I pray that each of you may receive his mercy and healing in abundance!
God bless!
Fr. Mike Muhr
By Fr. Mike Muhr
I want to share this story I read some time ago. In 1981, Peter Cropper a famous British violinist was scheduled to give a concert in Finland. As a favor, the Academy of Music in London offered him their 285-year-old Stradivarius for the trip. This violin was named after its creator Antonio Stradivari. It was made of 80 pieces of specially selected wood carefully constructed and then covered with 30 coats of varnish. The sound of its music has never been reproduced. Finally, the time for the concert came, and as Peter began to walk onto the stage his worst nightmare occurred. He tripped and fell. The violin broke apart into several pieces. Peter was horrified. Can you imagine how he felt? I have dreams like this. I dream I go to someone's house; I go to open the curtains and they fall off-the-wall…, but can you imagine breaking this priceless musical instrument? Well, Peter still in shock took the broken pieces back to London. He brought them to Charles Beare a master artisan who worked for hours and hours trying to reconstruct the broken violin. When he finally completed his repairs, he handed the instrument to Peter who raised the bow and began to play. Everyone wondered if it was ruined, but the violin played beautifully! In fact, people said it sounded even better than before. Talk about getting back on the horse - Peter then took that violin ontour to standing ovations around the world.*
Just as Charles Beare brought that Stradivarius back to life, Jesus the craftsman and healer of our souls with great patience and love brings wholeness to each of us. I have had the privilege to be part of the retreat team for a Rachel’s Vineyard weekend, a time where women and men receive the Lord’s healing and forgiveness for painful post-abortive emotions and experience renewed hope, reconciliation and well-being.
If you or someone you know has experienced the pain of abortion, please let them know there is help available. Our diocesan number for Project Rachel post-abortive healing is (813) 924-4173. All calls are confidential. If you want to read more about Rachel’s Vineyard retreats, please go to their website at www.rachelsvineyard.org.
I pray that each of you may receive his mercy and healing in abundance!
God bless!
Fr. Mike Muhr
September 28, 2025
Keep Working on Love
I am so grateful that Bishop Lynch and Fr. Gigliotti, TOR, were able to cover for me last weekend so that I could travel to Washington, DC, for a wedding celebration. Over a year ago, a young woman asked me if I would preside at her wedding at St. Gabriel’s Church in the District of Columbia. I offered her parent’s nuptial Mass over 31 years ago, celebrated her baptism as an infant and was thrilled to watch her grow and mature over the past 29 years. Whenever I give a homily at a wedding, I let everyone know that I am not qualified to offer personal advice which always elicits a chuckle. I tell them my role is to be a mirror for the wisdom of other couples who have lived long- lasting, loving marriages.
Last weekend, I shared these three points. See, what you think.
1. Love handles the curveballs. I do not know if I have ever met a couple who told me that everything in their lives went exactly as they thought it would go on the day they were married. Couples with long, loving relationships know how to treat the twists and turns in life with an attitude that views change as the “new normal” or even an adventure. They learn how to let go of the entitlement about the way things are supposed to go
2. Love listens and forgives. I remember a man at a wedding reception who said that he would not be married today if he had not learned how to communicate his thoughts and his feelings. He credited his wife with teach- ing him how to share what was important. Love also forgives. Once at a rehearsal dinner, a woman told me that she would advise a new couple that there will be times when they need to be able to say and mean from their hearts, “I’m sorry,” and their spouse needs to be able to say and mean from their heart, “I forgive you.” She said, “We were not able to do this in my marriage, or we would still be married today.”
3. The last point I shared was a quote from Mother Teresa which she often shared with her sisters when they asked for advice. She told them, “Keep working on love.” Couples with satisfying long relationships learn how to take an interest in what their spouse loves even if it is not something they share together, and they continue to find ways to foster intimacy.
“Even at 50 years, these relationships are not static; they’re not pictures in a frame,” says Pepper Schwartz, a sociologist special- izing in marriage. “They’re alive and organic and fulfilling at every stage. That’s the exciting part of living.” Katie and Tu’s wedding was beautiful and the atmosphere among their family and friends was delightfully joyous. These celebrations make me glad I became a priest, supporting new couples who are helping each other get to heaven!
Keep Working on Love
I am so grateful that Bishop Lynch and Fr. Gigliotti, TOR, were able to cover for me last weekend so that I could travel to Washington, DC, for a wedding celebration. Over a year ago, a young woman asked me if I would preside at her wedding at St. Gabriel’s Church in the District of Columbia. I offered her parent’s nuptial Mass over 31 years ago, celebrated her baptism as an infant and was thrilled to watch her grow and mature over the past 29 years. Whenever I give a homily at a wedding, I let everyone know that I am not qualified to offer personal advice which always elicits a chuckle. I tell them my role is to be a mirror for the wisdom of other couples who have lived long- lasting, loving marriages.
Last weekend, I shared these three points. See, what you think.
1. Love handles the curveballs. I do not know if I have ever met a couple who told me that everything in their lives went exactly as they thought it would go on the day they were married. Couples with long, loving relationships know how to treat the twists and turns in life with an attitude that views change as the “new normal” or even an adventure. They learn how to let go of the entitlement about the way things are supposed to go
2. Love listens and forgives. I remember a man at a wedding reception who said that he would not be married today if he had not learned how to communicate his thoughts and his feelings. He credited his wife with teach- ing him how to share what was important. Love also forgives. Once at a rehearsal dinner, a woman told me that she would advise a new couple that there will be times when they need to be able to say and mean from their hearts, “I’m sorry,” and their spouse needs to be able to say and mean from their heart, “I forgive you.” She said, “We were not able to do this in my marriage, or we would still be married today.”
3. The last point I shared was a quote from Mother Teresa which she often shared with her sisters when they asked for advice. She told them, “Keep working on love.” Couples with satisfying long relationships learn how to take an interest in what their spouse loves even if it is not something they share together, and they continue to find ways to foster intimacy.
“Even at 50 years, these relationships are not static; they’re not pictures in a frame,” says Pepper Schwartz, a sociologist special- izing in marriage. “They’re alive and organic and fulfilling at every stage. That’s the exciting part of living.” Katie and Tu’s wedding was beautiful and the atmosphere among their family and friends was delightfully joyous. These celebrations make me glad I became a priest, supporting new couples who are helping each other get to heaven!
September 21, 2025
Make Me an Instrument of Your Peace
I want to share a few words on the killing of Charlie Kirk which is still very much on everyone's heart. Many people have shared with me their strong emotions of sadness, anger and desire for retribution. These feelings are natural, but to act on them is not who we are as Catholic followers of Jesus. We are a people of compassion helping others continue on with strength and courage in the love of Christ.
In a prophetic plea Utah Governor Spencer Cox urged Americans to “choose a different path.” He also spoke strong words about social media as “a cancer on our society right now.” He said, “I would encourage people to log off, turn off, touch grass, hug a family member, go out and do good in your community.”
I believe this is also an opportunity for us to take another look at the prayer of St Francis which begins with the words, “Make me an instrument of your peace.” This inspiring prayer embraces powerful commitments. I plan to pray with a line each day over the next two weeks, and invite you to do the same. May the Lord light our way towards unity and help us be the peace we want by the way we think, talk, and act.
Prayer of St. Francis
Lord, make me an instrument of Thy peace;
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is error, truth;
Where there is doubt, faith;
Where there is despair, hope;
Where there is darkness, light;
And where there is sadness, joy.
O Divine Master, Grant that I may not so much seek
To be consoled as to console;
To be understood as to understand;
To be loved as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive;
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
And it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
Make Me an Instrument of Your Peace
I want to share a few words on the killing of Charlie Kirk which is still very much on everyone's heart. Many people have shared with me their strong emotions of sadness, anger and desire for retribution. These feelings are natural, but to act on them is not who we are as Catholic followers of Jesus. We are a people of compassion helping others continue on with strength and courage in the love of Christ.
In a prophetic plea Utah Governor Spencer Cox urged Americans to “choose a different path.” He also spoke strong words about social media as “a cancer on our society right now.” He said, “I would encourage people to log off, turn off, touch grass, hug a family member, go out and do good in your community.”
I believe this is also an opportunity for us to take another look at the prayer of St Francis which begins with the words, “Make me an instrument of your peace.” This inspiring prayer embraces powerful commitments. I plan to pray with a line each day over the next two weeks, and invite you to do the same. May the Lord light our way towards unity and help us be the peace we want by the way we think, talk, and act.
Prayer of St. Francis
Lord, make me an instrument of Thy peace;
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is error, truth;
Where there is doubt, faith;
Where there is despair, hope;
Where there is darkness, light;
And where there is sadness, joy.
O Divine Master, Grant that I may not so much seek
To be consoled as to console;
To be understood as to understand;
To be loved as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive;
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
And it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
September 14, 2025
Making a Difference
Last Sunday, in St. Peter's Square, Pope Leo XIV canonized two modern- day saints: Carlo Acutis and Pier Giorgio Frassati.
Carlo Acutis was a young millennial computer programmer with a passion for the Eucharist. He dedicated himself to spreading his love for Jesus in many ways including developing a website that details Eucharistic miracles throughout the centuries. www.miracolieucaristici.org/en/liste/list.html
He aimed to inspire others, especially his peers, to discover a greater love for Jesus’ Real Presence in the Sacrifice of the Mass.
Pier Giorgio Frassati, born in 1901, was an avid out- doorsman and mountaineer known for his exceptional love for the poor. Pope John Paul II dubbed him the “Man of the Eight Beatitudes.” It was the poor of Turin who petitioned Rome to recognize his sanctity.
Both of these saints died young: Carlo at the age of 15 from leukemia and Pier at 24 from polio and yet their impact on the world was substantial. How many people dream to make a difference in the world as they did in their short lives. I have been to a lot of talks where young people are present and speakers often address them as the “future of the Church.” They are not the future of the Church - they are the Church NOW as we see in these two shining examples of faith and service.
Do a web search of their names to learn more about these extraordinary disciples of Jesus.
St. Carlo Acutis, pray for us!
St. Pier Giorgio Frassati, pray for us!
Making a Difference
Last Sunday, in St. Peter's Square, Pope Leo XIV canonized two modern- day saints: Carlo Acutis and Pier Giorgio Frassati.
Carlo Acutis was a young millennial computer programmer with a passion for the Eucharist. He dedicated himself to spreading his love for Jesus in many ways including developing a website that details Eucharistic miracles throughout the centuries. www.miracolieucaristici.org/en/liste/list.html
He aimed to inspire others, especially his peers, to discover a greater love for Jesus’ Real Presence in the Sacrifice of the Mass.
Pier Giorgio Frassati, born in 1901, was an avid out- doorsman and mountaineer known for his exceptional love for the poor. Pope John Paul II dubbed him the “Man of the Eight Beatitudes.” It was the poor of Turin who petitioned Rome to recognize his sanctity.
Both of these saints died young: Carlo at the age of 15 from leukemia and Pier at 24 from polio and yet their impact on the world was substantial. How many people dream to make a difference in the world as they did in their short lives. I have been to a lot of talks where young people are present and speakers often address them as the “future of the Church.” They are not the future of the Church - they are the Church NOW as we see in these two shining examples of faith and service.
Do a web search of their names to learn more about these extraordinary disciples of Jesus.
St. Carlo Acutis, pray for us!
St. Pier Giorgio Frassati, pray for us!
September 7, 2025
Beginning Eternal Life
The most important beginning in our lives comes through the sacrament of baptism. It is our birth into eternal life! Here is a picture of our stained glass window of St. Brendan being baptized by Bishop Erc in the area of Tralee, Ireland around 484. God had great plans for Brendan, and it all began with him receiving the life-giving grace of this wonderful sacrament.
In the gospels of Matthew, Mark, and Luke, we hear of Jesus’ baptism as he makes holy the water for all of us who follow him. This amazing epiphany marks the beginning of Jesus’ public ministry. Before all the people, Jesus is blessed by the Father as all hear his voice from the heavens, “This is my beloved son, with whom I am well pleased.“ Matthew 3:17.
Take some time to reflect on your baptism. What do you know about it? Do you have any pictures? What are the desires of Jesus for you that flow from your baptism? What are his dreams for you? How is he calling you to serve him in our parish and the world today?
The following is my favorite part of the baptismal ritual for children. There is such great joy and mission in these words. As you read them, place your name in the spot that says “this child of yours” and let God speak to your heart!
“Parents and Godparents, this light is entrusted to you to be kept burning brightly. This child of yours has been enlightened by Christ. He (she) is to walk always as a child of the light. May he (she) keep the flame of faith alive in his (her) heart. When the Lord comes, may he (she) go out to meet him with all the saints in the heavenly kingdom.”
Beginning Eternal Life
The most important beginning in our lives comes through the sacrament of baptism. It is our birth into eternal life! Here is a picture of our stained glass window of St. Brendan being baptized by Bishop Erc in the area of Tralee, Ireland around 484. God had great plans for Brendan, and it all began with him receiving the life-giving grace of this wonderful sacrament.
In the gospels of Matthew, Mark, and Luke, we hear of Jesus’ baptism as he makes holy the water for all of us who follow him. This amazing epiphany marks the beginning of Jesus’ public ministry. Before all the people, Jesus is blessed by the Father as all hear his voice from the heavens, “This is my beloved son, with whom I am well pleased.“ Matthew 3:17.
Take some time to reflect on your baptism. What do you know about it? Do you have any pictures? What are the desires of Jesus for you that flow from your baptism? What are his dreams for you? How is he calling you to serve him in our parish and the world today?
The following is my favorite part of the baptismal ritual for children. There is such great joy and mission in these words. As you read them, place your name in the spot that says “this child of yours” and let God speak to your heart!
“Parents and Godparents, this light is entrusted to you to be kept burning brightly. This child of yours has been enlightened by Christ. He (she) is to walk always as a child of the light. May he (she) keep the flame of faith alive in his (her) heart. When the Lord comes, may he (she) go out to meet him with all the saints in the heavenly kingdom.”
August 31, 2025
Thank You
You may have seen last week in the bulletin that our office manager Steve Curtis will be retiring on August 31. He and his wife Mary will continue to be living and serving at St. Brendan’s, but they’re looking forward to some adventures into nature of which they’re very fond of taking.
I’m so grateful for Steve’s big-hearted presence and the way he stepped in when Fr. Tim was having trouble finding someone to assist in the manager’s role. Steve has been so kind and helpful to me these past two months. His spirit of hospitality is representative of this parish community as a whole.
We have so many visitors who come to this spectacular part of the world for rest and vacation. It makes me think of all the churches I have visited on my vacations through the years. The parishes that stand out in my memory are not only those that are in beautiful settings with inspiring sanctuaries, but most importantly the spirit of welcome I remember.
Each weekend, people come up to me after Mass telling me where they’re from. Many of them say that they are repeat visitors who look forward to visiting our parish every year. Thank you all for making St. Brendan‘s a home away from home for so many.
It is the spirit of hospitality that Jesus grew up in and extended especially to those whom society overlooks or pushes to the side. I’m thinking of his encounter with Zacchaeus in the tree. Jesus’ desire to experience his hospitality profoundly changed this tax collector’s life. We never know how even small acts of kindness and welcome can impact another person’s life.
Steve, once again, thank you for your service and may God bless you in all your future trailblazing!
Thank You
You may have seen last week in the bulletin that our office manager Steve Curtis will be retiring on August 31. He and his wife Mary will continue to be living and serving at St. Brendan’s, but they’re looking forward to some adventures into nature of which they’re very fond of taking.
I’m so grateful for Steve’s big-hearted presence and the way he stepped in when Fr. Tim was having trouble finding someone to assist in the manager’s role. Steve has been so kind and helpful to me these past two months. His spirit of hospitality is representative of this parish community as a whole.
We have so many visitors who come to this spectacular part of the world for rest and vacation. It makes me think of all the churches I have visited on my vacations through the years. The parishes that stand out in my memory are not only those that are in beautiful settings with inspiring sanctuaries, but most importantly the spirit of welcome I remember.
Each weekend, people come up to me after Mass telling me where they’re from. Many of them say that they are repeat visitors who look forward to visiting our parish every year. Thank you all for making St. Brendan‘s a home away from home for so many.
It is the spirit of hospitality that Jesus grew up in and extended especially to those whom society overlooks or pushes to the side. I’m thinking of his encounter with Zacchaeus in the tree. Jesus’ desire to experience his hospitality profoundly changed this tax collector’s life. We never know how even small acts of kindness and welcome can impact another person’s life.
Steve, once again, thank you for your service and may God bless you in all your future trailblazing!
August 24, 2025
St. Brendan the Navigator
By Fr. Mike Muhr
I am intrigued by our patron, St. Brendan, also known as the Bold. Although there are many adventures described in The Voyage of Saint Brendan the Abbota medieval Latin text of his seven-year journey in search of the Isle of the Blessed, historical facts about his life are few. We believe he was born around the year 484 in County Kerry, Ireland. He lived the life of a monk founding several monasteries and schools in Ireland, France and Wales.
Over the next few months, I’d like to reflect with you upon the allegorical spiritual meaning of some of his adventures as pictured in the beautiful stained glass windows surrounding the nave of our church. I look forward to traveling with you! As we begin our voyage, offer with me this inspirational prayer that conveys so beautifully the spirit of his legacy.
Help me to journey beyond the familiar and into the unknown.
Give me the faith to leave old ways and break fresh ground with You.
Christ of the mysteries, I trust You to be stronger than each storm within me. I will trust in the darkness and know that my times,
even now, are in Your hand.
Tune my spirit to the music of heaven, and somehow,
make my obedience count for You.
— Attributed to St Brendan
St. Brendan the Navigator
By Fr. Mike Muhr
I am intrigued by our patron, St. Brendan, also known as the Bold. Although there are many adventures described in The Voyage of Saint Brendan the Abbota medieval Latin text of his seven-year journey in search of the Isle of the Blessed, historical facts about his life are few. We believe he was born around the year 484 in County Kerry, Ireland. He lived the life of a monk founding several monasteries and schools in Ireland, France and Wales.
Over the next few months, I’d like to reflect with you upon the allegorical spiritual meaning of some of his adventures as pictured in the beautiful stained glass windows surrounding the nave of our church. I look forward to traveling with you! As we begin our voyage, offer with me this inspirational prayer that conveys so beautifully the spirit of his legacy.
Help me to journey beyond the familiar and into the unknown.
Give me the faith to leave old ways and break fresh ground with You.
Christ of the mysteries, I trust You to be stronger than each storm within me. I will trust in the darkness and know that my times,
even now, are in Your hand.
Tune my spirit to the music of heaven, and somehow,
make my obedience count for You.
— Attributed to St Brendan
August 17, 2025
A House of Prayer
By Fr. Mike Muhr, Pastor
“My house shall be a house of prayer,
but you have made it a den of thieves”
Luke 19: 46
When I first heard this passage of Jesus driving out the money changers, I was shocked and disturbed. Now when I hear it, I’m focused on the passionate love that Jesus has for the sacredness of the Temple and how I need to remain intentional in my reverence and respect for God’s house.
Jesus’ words and actions in this scene cause me to reflect:
1. Do I prepare my heart to meet the Lord as I’m driving and then walking from the parking lot towards the church?
2. Am I aware of what I’d like to ask my loving God?
3. Do I say hello when I enter and take time to kneel in adoration?
4. Am I careful of respecting those in prayer by talking quietly if I need to say something.
5. At the end of Mass do I ask for the Father’s blessing as I enter “mission territory” anew?
How does this passage affect you?
Sacred Heart of Jesus, have mercy on us.
A House of Prayer
By Fr. Mike Muhr, Pastor
“My house shall be a house of prayer,
but you have made it a den of thieves”
Luke 19: 46
When I first heard this passage of Jesus driving out the money changers, I was shocked and disturbed. Now when I hear it, I’m focused on the passionate love that Jesus has for the sacredness of the Temple and how I need to remain intentional in my reverence and respect for God’s house.
Jesus’ words and actions in this scene cause me to reflect:
1. Do I prepare my heart to meet the Lord as I’m driving and then walking from the parking lot towards the church?
2. Am I aware of what I’d like to ask my loving God?
3. Do I say hello when I enter and take time to kneel in adoration?
4. Am I careful of respecting those in prayer by talking quietly if I need to say something.
5. At the end of Mass do I ask for the Father’s blessing as I enter “mission territory” anew?
How does this passage affect you?
Sacred Heart of Jesus, have mercy on us.
August 10, 2025
Dear Sisters and Brothers,
This weekend we are saying farewell to two special friends and wonderful priests who have served St. Brendan for many years.
As you may have heard already, Msgr. Michael Devine has elected to return to his homeland of Ireland. He’ll be leaving on Tuesday, August 12th.
You all know how much he loves our community of St. Brendan’s. He served as pastor from 2001 and remained in residence for many years afterwards. He has been residing for the last several months at St. John XXIII residence in Lutz, an assisted living facility where nine other priests reside.
We wish him a very fond farewell and will remember him in our hearts and prayers. We will be having a reception for him this Saturday after the 4:30pm Mass.
Also, this weekend we are saying goodbye to Fr. Tony Plathe who has generously served here the last five years. His friendliness, warmth, sincerity, and priestly devotion will be greatly missed. He’s moving into an independent living residence near his family in Minnesota.
Fr. Tony, please know that your presence here these past years has made a significant positive impact on the life of this parish family. Here’s hoping that like riding a bike, you can readjust easily to winter’s ways. All the best!!
We will be hosting a reception for Fr. Tony on Sunday after his 9:00am Mass and again after the 11:00am Mass.
Sincerely yours in Christ,
Fr. Mike Muhr
Pastor
Dear Sisters and Brothers,
This weekend we are saying farewell to two special friends and wonderful priests who have served St. Brendan for many years.
As you may have heard already, Msgr. Michael Devine has elected to return to his homeland of Ireland. He’ll be leaving on Tuesday, August 12th.
You all know how much he loves our community of St. Brendan’s. He served as pastor from 2001 and remained in residence for many years afterwards. He has been residing for the last several months at St. John XXIII residence in Lutz, an assisted living facility where nine other priests reside.
We wish him a very fond farewell and will remember him in our hearts and prayers. We will be having a reception for him this Saturday after the 4:30pm Mass.
Also, this weekend we are saying goodbye to Fr. Tony Plathe who has generously served here the last five years. His friendliness, warmth, sincerity, and priestly devotion will be greatly missed. He’s moving into an independent living residence near his family in Minnesota.
Fr. Tony, please know that your presence here these past years has made a significant positive impact on the life of this parish family. Here’s hoping that like riding a bike, you can readjust easily to winter’s ways. All the best!!
We will be hosting a reception for Fr. Tony on Sunday after his 9:00am Mass and again after the 11:00am Mass.
Sincerely yours in Christ,
Fr. Mike Muhr
Pastor
August 3, 2025
What Matters to God?
Before you read any further, think about how would you answer this question: What matters to God?
I recently asked a number of people this question and received wonderful answers.
Here are a few of them:
What matters to God?
“YOU!”
“Loving and serving one another for His great glory”
“Your heart and who you are right now.”
“Our union with Him through his Son.”
“Love of the Father through the people He has blessed us with.”
Obviously, God cares about many things and all of us. If we ask this question through the lens of the gospels what answers would that elicit. Jesus cared about doing the will of his Father, and as he read from Isaiah in his home synagogue: proclaiming good news to the poor …freedom for the prisoners …recovery of sight for the blind … setting
the oppressed free… and proclaiming the year of the Lord’s favor.
Let me highlight one area that is proclaimed throughout the Bible. There are over 2000 verses dedicated to poverty and caring for the poor.
God cares deeply for those who struggle the most in life. His heart aches for them and he calls us to be his hands to care for them. I once read something St. Vincent de Paul said that stays with me as a humbling, purifying call, “Since God surely loves the poor, he also loves those who love the poor. For when one person holds another dear, he also includes in his affection anyone who loves or serves the one he loves. That is why we hope that God will love us for the sake of the poor.”
I would encourage you to keep praying about what matters to God. Think about the different saints and how they might answer this question. I truly believe that meditating on this will lead you deeper in your love for God and God‘s unconditional love for you!
What Matters to God?
Before you read any further, think about how would you answer this question: What matters to God?
I recently asked a number of people this question and received wonderful answers.
Here are a few of them:
What matters to God?
“YOU!”
“Loving and serving one another for His great glory”
“Your heart and who you are right now.”
“Our union with Him through his Son.”
“Love of the Father through the people He has blessed us with.”
Obviously, God cares about many things and all of us. If we ask this question through the lens of the gospels what answers would that elicit. Jesus cared about doing the will of his Father, and as he read from Isaiah in his home synagogue: proclaiming good news to the poor …freedom for the prisoners …recovery of sight for the blind … setting
the oppressed free… and proclaiming the year of the Lord’s favor.
Let me highlight one area that is proclaimed throughout the Bible. There are over 2000 verses dedicated to poverty and caring for the poor.
God cares deeply for those who struggle the most in life. His heart aches for them and he calls us to be his hands to care for them. I once read something St. Vincent de Paul said that stays with me as a humbling, purifying call, “Since God surely loves the poor, he also loves those who love the poor. For when one person holds another dear, he also includes in his affection anyone who loves or serves the one he loves. That is why we hope that God will love us for the sake of the poor.”
I would encourage you to keep praying about what matters to God. Think about the different saints and how they might answer this question. I truly believe that meditating on this will lead you deeper in your love for God and God‘s unconditional love for you!
June 27, 2025
God’s Astonishing Mercy
So many saints have marveled at the mercy of God. They have been inspired to find words that might come close to describing their personal experiences of having been touched, healed, and enflamed
by this divine presence and gift.
Here are a couple of their attempts:
From the words of Jesus to St. Faustina, Diary, (1273)
There is no misery that could be a match for My mercy, neither will misery exhaust it, because as it is being granted—it increases. The soul that trusts in My mercy is most fortunate, because I myself take care of it.
St. Claude de la Colombiere
Men may deprive me of property and honor; sickness may take away my strength and other means of serving You; I may even lose Your grace by sin; but never, never will I lose my hope in You. I will cherish it unto that dreadful moment when all hell will be unchained to snatch my soul away. “No one has hoped in the Lord and has been confounded.”
One contemporary example is found in the Ravensbruck prayer scrawled on a piece of wrapping paper in the Ravensbruck Concentration Camp (the only major Nazi concentration camp for women). Some sources say it was found on the body or in the clothing of a dead child. What I often wonder is how did this person come to this startling place of mercy and forgiveness. Lord help me live in your heart, in your mercy.
Lord, remember not only the men and women of good will but all those of ill will. Do not only remember all the sufferings they have subjected us to. Remember the fruits we brought forth thanks to this suffering — Our comradeship, our loyalty, our humility, our courage and generosity, the greatness of heart that all of this inspired. And when they come to judgement, let all those fruits we have borne be their reward and their forgiveness. Amen.
God’s Astonishing Mercy
So many saints have marveled at the mercy of God. They have been inspired to find words that might come close to describing their personal experiences of having been touched, healed, and enflamed
by this divine presence and gift.
Here are a couple of their attempts:
From the words of Jesus to St. Faustina, Diary, (1273)
There is no misery that could be a match for My mercy, neither will misery exhaust it, because as it is being granted—it increases. The soul that trusts in My mercy is most fortunate, because I myself take care of it.
St. Claude de la Colombiere
Men may deprive me of property and honor; sickness may take away my strength and other means of serving You; I may even lose Your grace by sin; but never, never will I lose my hope in You. I will cherish it unto that dreadful moment when all hell will be unchained to snatch my soul away. “No one has hoped in the Lord and has been confounded.”
One contemporary example is found in the Ravensbruck prayer scrawled on a piece of wrapping paper in the Ravensbruck Concentration Camp (the only major Nazi concentration camp for women). Some sources say it was found on the body or in the clothing of a dead child. What I often wonder is how did this person come to this startling place of mercy and forgiveness. Lord help me live in your heart, in your mercy.
Lord, remember not only the men and women of good will but all those of ill will. Do not only remember all the sufferings they have subjected us to. Remember the fruits we brought forth thanks to this suffering — Our comradeship, our loyalty, our humility, our courage and generosity, the greatness of heart that all of this inspired. And when they come to judgement, let all those fruits we have borne be their reward and their forgiveness. Amen.
June 20, 2025
I’ll never forget the night I was out with some friends for dinner, and I wanted to pay since I organized the outing. The waiter however thought I was pointing to the people behind us when I asked for the check. The next thing I knew he was telling them that I was covering their dinner. Obviously, they were quite surprised as was I!
I can’t take any credit for being hospitable for that accident, but it makes me wonder. Have you ever received hospitality that wowed you? How did it make you feel? What if each of us reading this reflection pledged to offer some spectacular hospitality to someone never expecting it. What if we made it a way of life? We too might unknowingly be entertaining angels!
I’ll never forget the night I was out with some friends for dinner, and I wanted to pay since I organized the outing. The waiter however thought I was pointing to the people behind us when I asked for the check. The next thing I knew he was telling them that I was covering their dinner. Obviously, they were quite surprised as was I!
I can’t take any credit for being hospitable for that accident, but it makes me wonder. Have you ever received hospitality that wowed you? How did it make you feel? What if each of us reading this reflection pledged to offer some spectacular hospitality to someone never expecting it. What if we made it a way of life? We too might unknowingly be entertaining angels!
June 13, 2025
Dear Sisters and Brothers,
Thank you so much for making me feel so welcomed back! Special thanks to Ray and Jane Snyder and their team for the coffee and donuts after the Masses last Sunday. It was a great way for me to get a chance to say hello to so many who were able to stay for this great community building gathering.
Hospitality is an exceptional charism of St. Brendan’s parish. This struck me so deeply the last time I was here in 2019 as I witnessed the various ways our community welcomes our visitors each week and how we as a community reach out to others in need in our area.
Today, we reflect on one of Jesus’ most memorable parables, the story of the Good Samaritan. No matter how close we get to the Lord, this narrative is ever challenging. It continues to ask the question: “And who is my neighbor?”
I have been thinking and praying a lot about how Jesus would want us to apply this parable to the present immigration crisis we face today?
Let me share with you Bishop Parkes’ statement for your prayer and reflection.
“The Catholic Church is pro-life. This means we believe that each human life has dignity, regardless of immigration status.
Human dignity exists because each of us is created in the image and likeness of God.
We also affirm that sovereign nations have the right to control and restrict their borders, and law enforcement actions are needed to preserve order and ensure community security for the common good.
On all sides of the immigration issue, there is fear. We must ask God to give us hope. Let us pray that justice and mercy will prevail.
Our country has long been a refuge for families and individuals fleeing violence, persecution, and acute poverty.
May our leaders enforce the laws of our nation and show compassion for the good and hard-working immigrants who only seek to provide for their families and contribute to our great nation.
Let us pray for our country that we may always be a nation of freedom and peace, and that we may live without fear of violence, persecution, or discrimination. Let us come together to respect the human dignity of all life from conception to natural death.”
Dear Sisters and Brothers,
Thank you so much for making me feel so welcomed back! Special thanks to Ray and Jane Snyder and their team for the coffee and donuts after the Masses last Sunday. It was a great way for me to get a chance to say hello to so many who were able to stay for this great community building gathering.
Hospitality is an exceptional charism of St. Brendan’s parish. This struck me so deeply the last time I was here in 2019 as I witnessed the various ways our community welcomes our visitors each week and how we as a community reach out to others in need in our area.
Today, we reflect on one of Jesus’ most memorable parables, the story of the Good Samaritan. No matter how close we get to the Lord, this narrative is ever challenging. It continues to ask the question: “And who is my neighbor?”
I have been thinking and praying a lot about how Jesus would want us to apply this parable to the present immigration crisis we face today?
Let me share with you Bishop Parkes’ statement for your prayer and reflection.
“The Catholic Church is pro-life. This means we believe that each human life has dignity, regardless of immigration status.
Human dignity exists because each of us is created in the image and likeness of God.
We also affirm that sovereign nations have the right to control and restrict their borders, and law enforcement actions are needed to preserve order and ensure community security for the common good.
On all sides of the immigration issue, there is fear. We must ask God to give us hope. Let us pray that justice and mercy will prevail.
Our country has long been a refuge for families and individuals fleeing violence, persecution, and acute poverty.
May our leaders enforce the laws of our nation and show compassion for the good and hard-working immigrants who only seek to provide for their families and contribute to our great nation.
Let us pray for our country that we may always be a nation of freedom and peace, and that we may live without fear of violence, persecution, or discrimination. Let us come together to respect the human dignity of all life from conception to natural death.”